Our Journey to Ever After

Tuesday, November 8, 2016

4 Years Down

It’s been four beautiful years since Rolly and I tied the knot, and there has never been a day that I didn’t thank the Lord for him. Extremely mushy as this may sound, but he is my most priceless gift. More than anyone, more than anything. God could not have picked a better life partner for me. I am beyond blessed.

08 November 2012, Christ the King Parish

Bliss. <3

At the Glass Garden.  Our first dance as hubby & wifey, :)

Listening to our well-wishers. :)

I believe that we have a good life because I have a good husband. A good husband makes a happy wife, a happy couple makes a happy family, a happy family makes a happy home. So thank you, hubby, for everything that you are. Thank you for the kind of love that you shower me and Lia every day, for your patience, your selflessness. We love you to the moon and back. Happy, happy 4th anniversary!




Wednesday, December 26, 2012

We've Been Featured! ♥

In the Philippines, one of the most popular online resources of brides-(and grooms)-to-be is Summit Media's bridalbook.ph.  I, myself, have been a follower of the site even before Rolly and I became engaged.  I love browsing through their photos and looking at the wedding and engagement features for inspiration. :) Lahat na yata ng featured couples nila na-browse ko na from the very first page down to the last.  So can you just imagine my joy when I received an email from bridalbook saying that they were interested to feature our recently held wedding?  I flew to seventh heaven!!!!!

Some of my friends saw the wedding feature first before I did.  They saw the link on bridalbook's facebook page and informed me about it.  Naturally, my fingers instantly clicked on it and ta-daaah!!!


The article was very nicely written, especially the part about our love story. :)


Haaaay.  I feel really, really blessed to have met my husband, the man God made for me.  Our wedding day's the best day of my life so far, and this wedding feature made it even more special. :)  Thanks so much, Bridal Book!


Cheers,


Friday, November 30, 2012

Our Vows

Next to the I Do's, I believe that the moment when wedding vows are said is the second most important part of a wedding ceremony.  At Christ the King, we were blessed to have been allowed to write and say our own vows, besides the standard ones recited in the church.  For Rolly and I, that moment was highly emotional, and it turned out to be one of my wedding day favorites. :)

Since we didn't have the luxury to invite every single one of our friends to the big day, I'm just sharing "the words" here for all the world to see.  If you're reading this, you are now a witness to Rolly's promises to me! Haha. =D



Rolly's: 

"To my beautiful bride, Joyce... When we met, I told you that you're the greatest gift that God has bestowed on me, and now that we're getting married, here's my chance to show my gratitude - by taking care of you, cherishing every part of you, and loving you unconditionally, all the days of my life.

"We will always be one, because there is no me without you.  My existence wouldn't make sense if you're not part of it.  We will face life's challenges together, and you'll never be alone.  With God's help, I will lead and take charge of our marriage, making sure that we are treading the right path, but know that I am yours to command whenever you need me.

"I will always remain faithful, and I will love no other woman but you.  In the times that I am not in your presence, you don't have to worry about anything because my loyalty stays firm.  I will never do anything to hurt you.

"I will work hard and spare no effort to be a good provider to our family.  I want you to live the convenient life that you deserve.  I will be a great father to our future children, and we will raise and train them well, upholding the same Christian values that we share.

"In as much as I want to excel in every endeavor I pursue, they will never get in the way of my goal of being the perfect husband for you.  I am yours forever, love.  I commit my life to you.  I love you, until I draw my last breath."


Joyce's: 

"Mahal... We've been together for more than four years, and as I stand here with you, I can't help but remember how I felt when we first met.  I knew you were the one I prayed for from God.  I knew that He sent you because I asked for someone like you, and I was reminded once more of the power of prayer.  You are an amazing compilation of all the qualities I've been looking for, and though no one is perfect, I've found something very close to it in you.  

"Today, I am honoured and humbled to have you as my partner for life.  I eagerly anticipate every day that we will share together, getting to know the man that you will become, with whom I know I'll be falling in love a little more everyday.  I vow to always put you first in my life and to give you the best of me every time.  I promise to love you in the best of times and in the worst, with all that I am and with all I have to give, in the only way I know how --- completely, faithfully, and forever.  I love you... you and no other." 


********


The vows were long, I know, but that's how eager we were to proclaim our promises before God and our family. These words will always remind us of the love that we felt on the first day of our life together --- the same love that we will nurture as we continue this life-long journey called MARRIAGE. :)


Cheers to forever!

Thursday, November 29, 2012

Post-Wedding Thoughts & Suppliers' Ratings


It’s been almost 3 weeks since Rolly and I said our I Do’s, and until now, there’s never been a day that I don’t play it back in my head. Our wedding may not be grand, but it was definitely magical. ;) That day, November 8, was not only how I had always imagined my big day would be… it was more.  It felt so surreal that there are moments when I still wonder if it actually happened. :p 

Oh well, right now is one of those moments when my head is on my shoulders, my feet are on the ground, and I am not at all wistful and scatterbrained. :) It's true, Rolly and I have tied the knot, and I am now Mrs. Joyce Del Pilar - Delos Reyes. Totoong totoong totoo nga ito. :) 

Anyway, I must say our wedding day wouldn't have become as beautiful and organized as it was if not for the careful and meticulous planning. Rolly and I got engaged in July 2011, and all those one and a half years before the day of days, all I did was research, research, research. And here, W@W (weddings at work) was a HUGE HELP. It was my online support group, my lifeline when it came to wedding preps, the site where I went to when I had questions or when I wanted to see the thoughts and ramblings of other brides-to-be who were on the same boat as I was. Of all types of posts, I especially loved reading suppliers' ratings. This was where I got ideas on which suppliers are good, and which ones I must avoid. Now, it's my turn to give back and share my two cents worth on our very own wedding team for the benefit of those researching on suppliers.  Here it goes... 


Ratings: 5 - highest, 1 - lowest. 


Church: Christ The King, Greenmeadows 
Rating: 5 


There's no denying how beautiful CTK is. In fact, it's among the top 10 best churches for weddings in the Philippines according to wikipilipinas. The altar is very photogenic with or without extra decorations (in fact, we only got the basic package from the in-house florist but the church did not look under-dressed at all). CTK is also air-conditioned, so you can be sure your groom and entourage won't get drenched in sweat while waiting for you to hit the aisle. 

In terms of coordination, the parish's point person, Ate Aileen Garlitos, has been very accommodating. May pagkamakulit ako, but I never saw her getting tired of my never-ending questions. She answered all my phone calls, even text messages and emails. She's really nice. When Fr.Peter Coching, the in-house priest who used to be a radio DJ, overlooked our wedding date and scheduled a provincial trip instead, Ate Aileen immediately informed us and looked for a replacement who's equally good in giving homilies (that was our request). We never had a problem dealing with her. :) 


Reception Venue: The Glass Garden 
Rating: 5 


We wanted the venue to have a garden feel, but we didn't want to risk doing it outdoors because of the very unpredictable weather. This was what made The Glass Garden perfect for us. It's like a garden brought inside the halls protected by glass walls. No matter what the weather, the program would go as planned. Also, the venue is very beautiful in itself, thus minimal styling is needed. 

In terms of coordination, we did not encounter a problem at all with our AE, Hazel Mapili. She's quick to respond to queries, and she's nice too. 


Caterer: Hizon's 
Rating: 5+ 


With regard to food, there is no question that Hizon's is always delicious. That's already a given, and I didn’t doubt that I would give their food a grade of 5 when I’m already doing these ratings. But what made me give them a 5+ was the excellent customer service of our Hizon's planner, Mark Valdellon. The planner originally assigned to us was Drew Menor, but since he got promoted, we were turned over to Mark. At first I wasn't too happy, but when I met Mark for the first time, I instantly knew we were in good hands. He's very dependable. :) 


Photo/Video: Nice Print 
Rating: 5+++ 

Why the high rating? The photos and video can speak for themselves. :) Because we only wanted the best, we got Nice Print’s Team A to cover our wedding, namely, Kenneth and Rupert for photos and Gherome for video. 

See their output here: 
Couturier : BKS Couture 
Rating: 5+++ 


There were two items in the wedding that I loved the most, and the wedding gown was one of them. While it was still in the works, I already imagined how it would look, but the moment I saw it in front of me, I still got surprised at how pretty it turned out to be. It was far better than the picture in my head! Magaling talaga si Tito Boy, not to mention his excellent PR and customer service. :) 

Tito Boy also made Rolly's suit, the mothers', bridesmaids', and flower girls' dresses. Hands down! For a very reasonable package, the gowns turned out to be really nice. Feeling ko nga nalugi sa amin si Tito Boy because we booked a year in advance, and at that time, rates were of course relatively lower. Hehe. Getting him to design our wedding attire was one of the best decisions we did during the wedding preps. Every single trip to his shop was worth it! :) 


Hair & Makeup: Mayone Bakunawa 
Rating: 5+++ 


The second of my two favorite things in the wedding was the makeup! Waaaaah! Mayone really did wonders on me! Hehe. She covered every single red spot and blemish on my face! Hehe. And I loved my smokey eyes! If only i could keep the makeup on days after the wedding was over, i would! I love love love Mayone! 

Even if Mayone was pregnant, the baby bump didn’t hinder her from doing her job very well. She followed me around to do touch-ups even if that wasn’t needed (because the makeup was intact the whole time), and she stayed even until the reception was almost finished to look after me. She's extremely nice and fun to be with. I adore Mayone and her magical hands so much that if and when Rolly and I would renew our vows many years from now and I would need to be 'big day-pretty' all over again, without batting an eyelash, i would ask her to do my makeup once more. That’s how great she is! Worth every cent. Swear! 


Wedding Rings: Golden Hills 
Rating: 5 


Dealing with Golden Hills was a breeze. We booked at a fair and at that time, the design that we chose was not the final one that we ordered. We changed it after we visited their branch in SM North and found another design that we liked more. Also, we had them tweak the rings a bit. For example, instead of 7 diamonds, we only wanted 5 because i have a tiny ring finger and 5 studs seemed enough. And instead of putting only the spouse's name on the ring, we had them put both our names on each ring with the infinity symbol in between. The date was also engraved on each one. :) 


Lights & Sounds: Rejectkrew 
Rating: 3.5 


What others have said about Rejectkrew's owner, Elmer Bautista, are all true. He's extremely polite. In a sentence, he uses about two or three po's and opo's. Haha. And his rate is also very competitive. Overall, nothing went wrong during the reception despite the fact that we never got the chance to meet up and discuss details prior to the wedding day. Things went well naman. The only thing that perhaps Rejectkrew could improve on is in terms of their coordination with clients. I understand they're a very busy team, just like most suppliers are, but i think this shouldn’t be a reason not to respond to clients' queries. An email response would only take a minute or two out of their busy schedule, but that reply would mean so much to stressed brides-to-be. I'm sure Elmer has his reasons, but I'm just saying he could still further improve his customer service. :) 


Musicians: String Minstrels 
Rating: 5 

We only got them for the reception since Christ the King had their in-house musicians already. Overall, we did not have any problem dealing with Tina Pasamba, the owner, even when we made last minute changes in the repertoire and the vocalist. Because Rolly and I were busy during the program, neither of us gave particular notice to the quartet anymore. All we know is that nothing went wrong, the music was easy on the ears, so it's all good! 


Preps Place: Eastwood Richmonde Hotel 
Rating: 4.5 

The primary reason why we chose Eastwood Richmonde, aside from its proximity to the church, was the fact that it has a fine looking staircase which is very ideal for pictorials at no extra cost. It's a pretty new hotel with an elegant lobby and nice rooms. For the wedding, we booked 1 Suite Deluxe and 1 Deluxe rooms,and much to our delight, they were upgraded on the day we checked in! We would have given it a perfect score had it not been for the additional charges for services that are normally free (i.e. 500 bucks a day for wifi access and 15 bucks per local call made from the room). 


Emcee: Marge Hizon 
Rating: 5 

We only have good words to say about Marge. She’s full of energy and has perfect grammar and diction! If you’re fussy about the host’s communication skills like we are, you can’t go wrong with her. We even got this comment from several guests: “Yung host n’yo pang awards night!” :) 


Flowers: Scenta Creations 
Rating: 4.5 


Overall, we were satisfied with what they delivered, which was based on the details we agreed on. It was also easy to transact with them. All of the flowers turned out as I expected. My keen eye caught a few which didn’t look too fresh, but they were hardly noticeable. In addition to the flowers, they also provided the arch that was placed at the church's entrance, which was way better than what the in-house florist of CTK offered. 


Souvenirs: Excel Frames & Decors 
Rating: 4.5 


Excel Frames was one of the first suppliers that we booked, at that time when we still hadn’t finalized the theme and motif of the wedding. Initially, I envisioned a modern fairy tale/Victorian concept, so the moment that we saw their designs with crown jewels and horse carriages and gold ornaments, we were immediately swayed into making a decision. Little did we know that our theme was still about to change, hehe. It was a little impulsive but we have no regrets. Our guests still loved the keepsakes even if they did not fit to the Romantic Whimsical theme anymore. 

Excel frames also provided our gifts for principal sponsors - bronze images with silver details of the Holy Family. We got them for P640 each, but they looked a lot more expensive. Good buy! :) 


Cake: Perfectly Sweet Cakes and Pastries 
Rating: 5 


Our wedding cake was a gift from my boss, but I personally took care of the detailing. We never met Bess, the cake maker, personally. All communication was via facebook and sms, but the cake was exactly how I wanted it would be. It tasted as good as it looked! 


Invites: Global Invitations 
Rating: 5 


One word about our invites: LOVELY! :) Pam, the owner, was also very easy to deal with. 


Prenup Video: Fuguwi Collective 
Rating: 5+++ 

Fuguwi by Al Cruz, though relatively new in the wedding industry, is extremely good at tugging at one’s heartstrings. You can watch our prenup video here and see for yourself. :) 


Shoes: Perfect Match 
Rating: 3.5 


I had my wedding shoes customized by Perfect Match, and the pair looked exactly as the peg I gave them. There are just two things I didn’t like: 1) Mari, the owner, said they would provide heel cushions, if needed, until the client gets perfectly comfortable with the shoes, but in my case, she did not. She just told me I could easily get these at Mr. Quickie. 2) Two crystals on the shoes were displaced even when I didn’t wear them yet. 


Bridal Car: Jaguar c/o Ninong OMR 
Rating: 5+++ 


Thanks for lending us one of your gwapo cars, Ninong Orville! 


OTD: Timeless Events by Janina Pangilinan 
Rating: 5 

Janina and her team didn’t disappoint. They were there on time, and everything was smoothly done, all points covered. They made me stress-free on my wedding day, and until now, I have no idea if anything went wrong because I didn’t see anything that was amiss. Good job! :)

*****

That's it! :) Our heartfelt thanks goes out to this dream team who helped make our dream wedding become a reality. Thaaaaank youuu!

The big day is over, now the spotlight is on our life-post-wedding bells, something we have to seriously work on every single day of our lives forever. Are we ready? Yes we are. Game face on! :)




Now a wifey,


Friday, November 2, 2012

The Last Fling Before the Ring

It was a pleasant surprise two Fridays ago, October 19, exactly twenty days before "the ring" permanently seizes my fourth finger. Aptly, my girlfriends called it "The Last Fling Before the Ring." :)

I knew the bridal shower was gonna happen, but I had no idea when.  Days before that Friday, Janina and I even had dinner and she told me it's hard to get a common schedule among her and my other girlfriends, that's why it was difficult to finally set the party.  Oh well, I thought, that's fine.  We had plenty of remaining days anyway.  

That Friday, Jan asked me if I could join her in a client meeting (she's a part-time wedding coordinator) for support.  It was the first time ever that she asked me for such a favor, and of course I agreed.  I never had an inkling that she's bringing me somewhere else.  When she told me the meeting would be at a hotel, at first I wondered why.  Normally, meetings are done inside restaurants or perhaps in the client's house. But at a hotel? Hmm. For a millisecond, I thought there might be something going on.  But that hunch went away immediately after I told myself that Janina never kept the bridal shower plans from me anyway.  Why hide it then?  

Imagine my surprise when I entered the hotel room and saw this.


And all my girlfriends (Carlie included) were there!!!


I felt sooo happy!  I have the most awesome buddies in the world!!! :)  The evening was filled with crazy fun.  We had booze, food, games, and shockers!

via Instagram
via Instagram

My husband-to-be was a surprise guest of honor.  I didn't know that he was coming for he made it sound like he was already home when he called me.  While I was blindfolded, I even thought that a male stripper was waiting for me as soon as I opened my eyes!  I kicked and yelled, and when I heard the guy whisper, I knew it was not a stripper after all.  Only one voice could make my heart skip a beat like that.  I knew it was my Rolly. *kilig*  He stayed for only about ten minutes.  He just gave me flowers and said a sweet, sweet message for my friends to hear.  (Kinilig pa nga si Carlie! Haha).  Oh well, I was sorry he had to leave.  That's my bridal shower, and technically, he should be off-limits. :)

After all the games and laughter, another shocker bolted from the blue.  I was blindfolded once again;  I thought I heard them setting up the iPad and the TV speakers.  Naisip ko, baka message from mommy and daddy, or from my other friends.  I waited and waited.  When my blindfold was taken off, oh my God!  There was a half-naked man gyrating lewdly in front of me!  

Of course there were no photos!  Haha. But I was really shocked!  At first, I got scared that he might move too close to me or force me to touch his uhm, you-know-what.  But after Carlie told me it would be okay and that the stripper was instructed not to do such things, I found myself calming down.  It was all good.  That was my first time seeing a real macho dancer!  We were all shouting and running and laughing.  It was fun!!! But the person who had the best time was... surprise suprise, CARLIE! =)) ROTFL


I'd like to thank my friends again for this really wonderful night.  Janina, Cess, Nikki, JJ, Ms. Lerms, Joie, Jam, Carlie, Ate My. and Ate Shirl, I love youuuu!  I wouldn't have experienced this if not because of you guys.  You are awesome!!!


Getting married very soon,


Saturday, September 1, 2012

Big Day Updates!


It's the first day of September and our wedding ticker says we only have two months and one week until the big day!

A number of people have asked me how I feel now that it's so near. Honestly, I am at a loss for anything to say. One minute I'd feel very excited, the next hour I'd feel extremely nervous.  It's something I wish I could explain but I can't.  All I know is that regardless of how I feel at any given moment,  my heart and mind are consistent in telling me that it's all positive, that I am a happy bride-to-be. 

Like what Rolly said in his tweet this morning, we are now two calendar page flips away from the wedding day. By now, we have already put a check mark on many of our major things-to-do, but of course, there are still a lot to accomplish.  In summary, here are our Big Day developments: 


  • Church Requirements:  Baptismal & confirmation certificates, CENOMAR, draft missalette, and list of principal sponsors already submitted.  Canonical interview with Fr. Peter done.  Marriage license application done. Request for new copies of NSO birth certificates done. Pending: marriage vocation seminar scheduled on September 15 and 16.
  • Caterer:  Final detailing done.  Awaiting the floor plan once the number of guests is finalized.
  • Invitations:  Done.  For pickup on September 8, distribution to begin immediately thereafter.
  • Wedding Attire:  First fitting done.  Entourage measurements already taken.
  • Souvenirs:  Done!  They're already with Rolly for safekeeping.  I hafta change the box ribbons though.     The ones the supplier used did not pass my standards. =P
  • Reception Program:  Done! :)


Pending Tasks:

  • List of songs:  This I haven't started yet.  =S
  • Florist:  No development. =S I haven't scheduled a detailing yet.  
  • My DIYs:  I have already started but I haven't finished!  I wish I had more creative juices in me.
  • AVP and Guestbook:  We gotta submit photos to Niceprint already!


I guess we're doing okay so far. I'm a bit worried that I won't get to finish all the DIYs, but these are minor things anyway.  Best effort na lang.  

Wish us luck, guys! :)


Cheers,


Friday, August 17, 2012

20 Things I Want To Tell Engaged & Newlywed Women

This is a post by Joy Forney of Grace Full Mama:


1. Marriage is made up of two good forgivers. Because every marriage is made up of two sinners. (Romans 3:23)

2. At some point, you will have to learn that life isn’t all about you. (Philippians 2:3)

3. Don’t listen to women that tell you that passion fades…it doesn’t have to! (um…all of Song of Solomon)

4. Don’t give up. Love never fails. (1 Cor. 13)

5. He wants a kind wife, not a maid or another mother. Be nice. (Galatians 5:22-23)

6. Give your husband the gift of your respect. He needs it more than you know. (Ephesians 5:33)

7. Be mindful of your expectations.

8. Honor the Lord above all things. (Colossians 3: 17)

9. Find your worth and security in the Lord, and don’t look to your husband to meet all of your needs.

10. Be very careful about reading romance novels, they set you up for an unrealistic view of romance.

11. Real romance is finding that one spot in the crook of his arm to snuggle into, that shared look over the dinner table when the kids are acting crazy, and the way he fixes the leaky sink when he is dog-tired after work.

12. Love is about relationship. The more I love my husband, and seek a relationship with him, the less critical and duty-bound I become. It is similar to my relationship with God.

13. Be thankful for the husband you have. Accept him as he is, not for what you want him to be.

14. Don’t compare!! Don’t buy into the game of comparing him with anyone else’s husband.

15.The Biblically “normal” marriage is filled with joy, connection, laughter, and peace. It’s not free of hurt feelings and conflict, but they know how to process their pain with one another so that they live more often in a meadow than at the scene of a train wreck. This is not the average marriage, but it normal – -because it is a visible display of Jesus’ relationship with His bride (Ephesians 5:22-33).

16. Your marriage is a testimony!

17. Pray for your marriage. Pray hard.

18.I’ve heard that is gets better with age. I have to say in my short {13 year} experience, that is so true.

19. Where there is God, there is always hope. Even for the most broken marriages. “With God all things are possible.” (Matthew 19:26)

20.Marriage is commitment and sacrifice. But it’s also the best, most wild ride you will ever have with your 

best friend.



I loooooove her list! Something to inspire me when I cross over to that life. ;)


Cheers,


Saturday, August 11, 2012

Rolly Says Happy Anniversary

This was what greeted me first thing on Wednesday morning, a sweet, sweet post from my lovey...



The Sunday before that, when we celebrated our anniversary 4 days in advance, he gave me roses with this note:



Sweet! ♥ 
I hope he would never change, ever.
Well, he promised he won't. 


Smitten,


Wednesday, August 8, 2012

4 Years and Counting

*MUSHY ALERT!* Proceed at your own risk. =p


Today is August 8, 2012... four beautiful years since 888.  Oh, how time flies.  I feel like it was only yesterday when Rolly said he envied the man who would have the privilege to take care of me.  He said he wanted to be in that man's place, and that he was hoping to call me his girlfriend.  I shyly said yes, and we have been inseparable since.  Haaay, the memory still makes me giddy. *blush*

Now four years have passed, and three months from now, we are going to marry.  There was never once in the course of our relationship when I didn't think we would end up together.  I have always known he's the one.  In fact, even when he was still courting, I already knew.  God gave me signs though I didn't ask for them, I guess He just wanted me to see them and feel that this guy is the one He has hand-picked for me.  Without a doubt, I felt that.  And now we're here, delightfully engaged! 


In celebration of our one thousand and four hundred sixtieth day together, I'm sharing our engagement video, produced and directed by Al Cruz.  You have to congratulate me for keeping this private for months, though I've been itching to publish this the moment I got hold of the file. Hehe. Again, KESO ALERT guys!  The video is really mushy, so if this ain't your thing, do not, by all means, watch the vid. Don't say I didn't warn you. ;)




Three more months to go, and I shall be Mrs. delos Reyes! ;)  Happy anniversary, husband-to-be! 


Excited Bride-to-Be,


Tuesday, June 12, 2012

Big Day Updates

It's the 12th day of June... 4 months, 3 weeks, and 5 days before the big day to be exact.  =D  I'm pleasantly surprised at how quickly time flies!  November is getting nearer and nearer!  Waaaah! *faints*

I had more than enough time in my hands last weekend, so I finally got myself into writing down a detailed checklist for the wedding.  I started confidently, knowing that we've already accomplished many, but then I eventually realized that there's still a lot of things left to do!  Here's our work-in-progress report as of today:

ITEMS DONE:

  • Wedding Rings - Our lovely rings are ready! They're in Rolly's possession now for safekeeping until November.
  • Baptismal and Confirmation Certificates - Our dependable parents took care of these.  :)
  • Missalette - Draft done. :) Rolly and I chose the readings and finalized the liturgical entourage.  It's now awaiting approval by the parish.
  • Engagement Photo Shoot - Super done! :) Sets 1 and 2 are already uploaded on facebook.  Set 3 will be posted on July 8, 4 months before the big day. 
  • Engagement Video Shoot - Done! I've been itching to publish the video since I've gotten hold of it!  It will be posted on August 8, our 4th year anniversary 3 months before the wedding.
  • Guestlist and Table Assignments - Draft done! This will be finalized after we've distributed the invites and all have responded to the RSVP.
  • Save the Date Cards - Done and distributed. ;)
  • Will You Be Cards for Principal Sponsors - Cards done, some are in the hands of the ninongs and ninangs already, others are awaiting meetup schedules.
  • Hotel for Preps - Booked! :)

IN PROGRESS:
  • Wedding Gown and Groom's Suit - Our measurements were already taken.  Shell fitting for me is set on July 15, same with the entourage members' measurement taking schedule.
  • CENOMAR - We already requested this from NSO.  For pickup on week 3 of June. :)
  • Wedding Cake - ongoing talks with the cake designer. :)
  • Shoes - My customized shoes are now being produced! I hope they turn out lovely! :)
  • Souvenirs - Awaiting the supplier to present a mock-up for our approval prior to mass production.

TO BE DONE ASAP:
  • Marriage Vocation Seminar - This is one church requirement which is scheduled on July 7 and 8 at Christ the King. Rolly and I are super excited about this. :)
  • Detailing with the Caterer - Scheduled on July 14. We have to get this over with so we can proceed to deciding on other things, depending on how our discussion with Hizon's turns out.
  • Detailing with Florist - We'll do this probably in July also.  No schedule yet.
  • Discussion with the Reception Emcee - Trying to schedule this on July 14 as well.
  • List of Songs for the Ceremony and Reception - This I gotta accomplish as soon as possible!
  • Finalize DIY Ideas - We will do a lot of DIY-ing for the wedding, and this is the thing I am most scared about.  I'm far from being creative, period. =\  We'll just be soliciting tips and advice from resourceful and imaginative friends just so the DIY stuff will be completed in good taste. Hehe.

Yaaay!  I'm sure things will go smoothly for us because God is in the center of all this. :)   If other soon-to-wed couples feel stressed with the nitty-gritty of wedding preps, we are not. In fact, Rolly and I are only thrilled to bits, and wedding preps is our ultimate stress reliever.  Weeee! Malapit na malapit na malapit naaaa!




Over the moon,


Tuesday, May 1, 2012

Save the Date! :)

Mayday! Mayday!  It's the first of May! =D

Today is exactly six months and one week from our day of days! :) According to theknot.com, as a general rule, it's best to start spreading the big day's date to guests around this time (8 months prior for destination weddings).  Notifying them six months before the wedding gives them enough time to ask for a day off from work, or for those who'll be coming from miles away, to book their travel.

Because I'm a compliant bride-to-be, Rolly and I have already started sending out our Save the Date cards to our guests.  We're not having a huge wedding, so all invited guests are really close to us and to our families.  The last thing that we'd want is for any one of them to forget our wedding date. =P

Here's our STD card which I designed. Hehe. ;)

The backdrop behind the caricature is an element from our monogram. :)
The "separator" between ROLLY and JOYCE is an infinity symbol, or a number 8 displayed sideways.


For principal and secondary sponsors as well as members of our entourage, here's the Will-You-Be + Save-the-Date card in one which we already sent out:

There's a considerable headroom on the card for the ribbon. :)

If you already received either of these from us, remember to SAVE THE DATE! :)


Cheers,


Saturday, April 28, 2012

Appointment with BKS

Last Sunday, April 22nd, was one of my most anticipated Sundays this quarter. :) It was when we went to our designer, Boy Kastner Santos, to finalize the designs of our wedding outfits. He also took our measurements. :)

Busy si Tito Boy. Standing ovation naman ang bangs ko na ayaw magpa-headband. =))
Pressure! Hindi na pwede lumaki ang tummy ko! =D

We're very happy with the designs Tito Boy sketched for us!  I won't share them here though. =P  Our next meet-up: JULY 15 at Trinoma with the entourage! :) Yaaay!


Cheers,


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