For mommies and daddies to be, perhaps one of the biggest mysteries after the 'gender reveal' is how the baby looks like. Will s/he take after daddy, mommy, or will s/he be a mix of both? Well, for Rolly and I, those questions have already been answered. We already saw our baby in 3D! :)
Look at that nose! :) That is undeniably Rolly's! :) The lips, too!
Weeee! Little Munchkin is smiling at mommy and daddy! :)
And then she's back to serious mode. Hehe. =D
I've always imagined my daughter to look like me, but basing it on these photos, I guess it's pretty obvious that she looks like her daddy. When I was a baby, my nose was teeny-weeny, and nowhere will you find a prominent bridge. The lips, we're guessing, are also Rolly's, because I don't have a shapely upper lip like that. Hehe. Because Little Munchkin's eyes are still shut, there's no way to tell if they're mine or her daddy's. If they come out to be chinky, haaaaay naku naman, wala nang nakuha sa akin! The eyes and the brows are my last chance! Please please please! =D
We had Munchkin's 3D and 4D scan at In My Womb, Mall of Asia. We actually had to go back there three times, because the sonologist couldn't take good pictures 'coz our baby would always cover her face with her hands and feet! I wonder if she's just shy, or that contortionist-ish pose is her default position in my uterus. Hehe. Good thing that In My Womb allows up to 4 re-scans if the baby's not being cooperative.
Oh Little Munchkin, we love you very much! :) We can't wait to see you in the flesh! But for now, we'll just be content looking at these photos of yours. We've got about 6 to 9 weeks to go! :)
It was our last session this morning! And as planned, today was no longer about pregnancy and childbirth. Today was dedicated for newborn care: breastfeeding, diapering, and swaddling, among others.
Here, Ms. Rome was demonstrating how to clean the baby after s/he pees or poops, and how to put on a diaper. :)
Then it was the daddies' turn! :) Kyle and Jason were putting on their sons' nappies, while my hubby worked on our little girl. :)
More than the mommies, Ms. Rome focused on teaching the dads. Hehe. She emphasized how important the husband's help and support will be after the wifey delivers the little one. I appreciated those words very much, though I know how supportive Rolly will be even without anyone telling him. :)
And, after all the demos and practice, we watched a 20-minute video about breastfeeding.
Though the film made it look like breastfeeding's easy peasy, I know better. I've never talked to any mommy who didn't say how challenging it is in the first few weeks. Some friends even told me that they didn't cry during labor, but they did while breastfeeding. Scaaary! I'll be needing more preps for this. I am really, really determined to breastfeed our Little Munchkin. As they say, breast is best! :)
And that's it! :) We ended the morning with the awarding of certificates.........
Here's ours, yaaay! :)
......... and EATING!!! Each couple brought something to share with the group, so there was sooooo much food! :) There were different kinds of pasta, pizza, roast beef, arroz caldo, mamon, cakes, and ice cream. Obviously, I wasn't able to take a photo because I was busy eating, and that was my priority at that moment. Hahaha. =D
Overall, we had a very wonderful 6-Sunday experience learning from Ms. Rome Kanapi. The fee was very sulit, our weekly trip to Quezon City all the way from the south of the metro was all worth it. I would definitely recommend expectant couples to take her classes! She's very warm and accommodating, in fact, she told the class that even after today, we can still call or text her if we have questions. She even encouraged us to create a Facebook group so everyone could keep in touch. :) Nice, di ba?
So that's about it! I hope I would be able to remember everything we learned when labor day arrives. Wish me luck! :)
Munchkin and I are exactly 30 weeks and 3 days along today, and this morning was our scheduled monthly appointment with the OB at her clinic in Asian Hospital. Since Rolly and I plan to have our baby doll delivered at Asian, we spent the morning (while waiting for the doctor) getting to know it better, checking out the birthing facilities, the inpatient rooms, and of course, the rates. We thought it would be good to be familiar with the hospital surroundings in order to plan our route for D-day, so we won't have to scramble for directions when I'm already having labor contractions.
Okay, let's imagine that my Munchkin moment has arrived. My bag of waters breaks, and I'm already experiencing moderate contractions. Hubby and I decide that it's already time to go to the hospital. Where will he bring me exactly?
To Genesis at the 3rd floor of Asian's right wing! Genesis is what they call the hospital's birthing center. :)
It's better to head straight to Genesis instead of the E.R. when you're about to give birth to avoid
unnecessary E.R. charges.. The E.R. guys will just also bring you to Genesis anyway.
Upon arrival at Genesis, I will be wheeled to the Triage Room. This room is where I will continue on with labor until my cervix dilates to about 8cm. Hubby can stay with me inside Triage as I fight my way through the pain (ouch!).
The Triage Room is pretty big separated by curtains. There's nobody there when we went to have a look,
but when we were about to leave, we saw a nurse wheeling in a pregnant woman in active labor. :)
When I finally reach 8cm, I will be transferred to one of the birthing rooms where I will wait 'til my cervix fully dilates to 10cm. The photo below was taken from the door since we weren't allowed to go in, but from where we stood, the room looked spacious and comfortable. I'm sure that at the peak of labor, I wouldn't care how the room looks like, but at least hubby will be cozy here, as he waits with me for our little bundle of joy. :) And oops before I forget, this birthing room is for normal delivery only. Genesis has a different one for CS, that one we didn't get to see anymore.
The birthing room we checked out was just right across Triage.
And yes, 1 is to 1 for the room. No sharing! :)
The nurse says that after delivery, I will have to stay at the birthing room for about a couple of hours. Assuming that our Litttle Munchkin is 100% healthy and has no special needs, she gets to stay with me and daddy, too, after she's cleaned up! :) Here, I will get to cuddle and breastfeed my baby for the first time. Just imagining it now makes me cry in happiness. *tears*
After resting for a bit post-delivery is the time when I will be transferred to my room at the 5th floor for our small family's private time together. :) Asian Hospital has different types of rooms for maternity patients: Presidential Suite, Executive Private, Junior Executive Private, Standard Private, and a Four-Bedded Room or ward. Choosing a room is critical because in one of our childbirth classes with Ms. Rome Kanapi, she mentioned that in most hospitals, the more exclusive the room is, the higher the miscellaneous fees are! I was surprised because I always thought the fees were standard, only the room rates differ. Well, I asked the admissions staff at Asian, and she confirmed it! That being said, the presidential suite and executive private rooms are definitely out of our options list when I give birth. Hehe. Hopefully, there will be one standard private room available when my time comes, because that is what we're eyeing.
STANDARD PRIVATE ROOM.
Across the bed is the dresser and closet, a small ref, and a TV.
The Guest Services staff told me that in other standard rooms, the TV is flat screen. :)
There's a built-in couch and easy chair with ottoman by the window. :)
And another comfy chair beside the bedside table. :)
The toilet and bath. There's no tub obviously. :)
The Standard Private room is roomy! :) It's the most in-demand room for maternity patients at Asian Hospital, thus is the first to run out. In the event that I need to be admitted already and there's none of this room available, our second option is the Junior Executive Private room. We got a chance to check it out as well, and its only difference from the Standard Private is the fact that it has a two-seater coffee table, a better-looking closet, and a bigger flat screen TV. It's also a little more spacious, but the size difference is really not so much. But the price difference? Huge. Junior Exec is 65% more expensive than Standard Private.
The coffee table inside the Junior Executive Private room.
The better-looking closet. Bow.
According to the hospital staff, even after we're admitted in the junior exec room, we can always tell them that we want to be transferred to a standard private when one becomes available. :) We also asked about the room's cut-off time, and they said it's always at 11am of the following day. That means if I get admitted at any time on April 15, for instance, I get charged for the room only at 11am of April 16. ;)
Here are photos of the lobby areas at the 5th floor where visitors could lounge.
This is the lobby near the Standard Private room we checked out.
This is nearer the Junior Executive room.
Now after the labor pains and the bliss of holding our healthy Little Munchkin, it's time to go home! :) But before that, hubby has to first settle the hospital bill. Hehe. So how much would it really cost to deliver a baby at Asian Hospital? The truth is, there is no definite answer. The admissions officer could only tell you an estimate, because the actual amount depends on many factors, such as the procedure (NSD or CS), how many your doctors are and how much their rates are (of course some doctors are more expensive than others), the length of your hospital stay, the room you got, the condition of your baby (does s/he need to be in an incubator, other special needs s/he may have), et cetera. We asked for estimated costs at Genesis, and were given a sheet of paper. Note that the prices here are all "estimated for uncomplicated cases; professional fees of doctors (OB, anesthesiologist, and pedia) and room are NOT INCLUDED."
Now let's do a sample computation for an uncomplicated normal spontaneous delivery:
Delivery at Genesis: PhP 60,000
3-day stay at a Junior Executive room: PhP 18,000
OB's PF: PhP 60,000
Anesthesiologist PF: PhP 20,000
Pedia's PF: PhP 20,000
TOTAL: PhP 178,000
To reiterate, this is only a sample. It could go much higher or slightly lower depending on the individual case and your choices. Obviously, if you choose to stay in a 4-bedded room instead of junior executive, the room rate is much less expensive. If you have super famous dream doctors in the team, it follows that their fees are much more as well. If you're having a boy and you'll have him circumcised right after birth, then that would be added to the cost, too. Again, it depends on you and your baby's condition and the choices you make. :)
That wraps up our tour of Asian Hospital for my maternity needs. :) If you have questions or would like a copy of the latest room rates, let me know by writing a comment so I could email it to you. :)
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UPDATE as of 31 October 2018:
I just gave birth again at Asian Hospital last 13 October 2018, and this time it was a Caesarian delivery and was very different from when I gave birth in 2015 (reasons here). Hit the comment section below if you're curious about the rates and/or the experience. 🙂
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UPDATE as of 19 March 2020:
If you are into watching videos, just watch our vlog entry below and you'll get the same details!
The 5th session of Ms. Rome's Preparation for Childbirth classes is a relatively serious one. Why? We talked about birthing complications! Like, what will be the problems that can lead to cesarian section, as well as the conditions where moms could still go through a normal spontaneous delivery. I took a photo of the board in class so I didn't have to take down notes. Hehe.
After the detailed discussion, we watched a film about the Stages of Labor. As mentioned in a previous post, I knew I needed to prepare my nerves for this.
You might think I overacted, but I did cry discreetly in some parts of the video, especially the part where the mommy's in so much pain during labor. I called my tears "tears of fear." Hehe. Good thing it also showed the happiness in her face upon seeing her baby for the first time. I imagined a thought bubble saying "It was all worth it." Haaay, the love of a mother. I can't wait to feel that feeling, too (the joy ha, I'm not looking forward to the pain, hehe).
So, next week will be the last session! And we were told it will all be about the next several days after delivery --- newborn care! Yaaay, I'm going to enjoy that sesh! :)
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